Identiteit en Versoeningswerk (Anti-Rassisme en Geregtigheid)

Hierdie volgende inskrywing is die opsommende totaal van drie dae se gedagtes rondom anti-rassisme en geregtigheid in Johannesburg by die eMseni Retreat Sentrum.

“Mense is moeg om oor versoening te praat en dit nie te voel/ervaar nie.”

“Ons doen nie onsekerheid goed nie…”

Wanneer fasiliteringswerk met gemeentes gedoen word in brugtydperke kan ‘n storiemuur gebruik word wat die konteks van die gemeenskap identifiseer, die gemeente se geskiedenis in die gemeenskap en elke deelnemer se persoonlike ervarings. Dit word gegrond in ‘n anker teks deur saam te wandel in die Woord.

Ontmoetingsvrae:

  1. Wie is jy en wat celebrate jy tans?
  2. Is there anything that you might be sitting with that in sharing with us will allow you to be fully present?
  3. Wat beteken versoening vir my en hoekom maak dit saak?

“Daar is betekenis agter elke keuse.”

Goeie vra om uit te vind wat staan in die pad van innovasie/transformasie/…

  1. What about what we are trying to do here feels like the biggest blockage?
  2. What are some of the limiting assumptions that you carry about this?
  3. Which assumption is most limiting?
  4. Do you think this assumption is inherently true and why?
  5. If untrue: What are your words for what is true and liberating instead? If true: What can you credibly assume instead?
  6. If the world knew (insert true, liberating alternative), what would change for you?
  7. If you and the world knew (insert true, liberating alternative), what would change for the world?

Na hierdie oefening het ons kenmerkende eienskappe van ‘n wit man neergepen, asook die van ‘n swart man en dit met mekaar vergeleik om te sien hoe die perspektiewe teenoor beide mans verskil.

“Onthou, daar is mense wat verandering/versoening/innovasie/transforasie wil sien, onthou hulle. Moet nie vaskyk in die wat dinge wil hou soos dit is nie, of selfs ‘n paar tree terug wil gee nie.”

Power Flower: Die Power Flower bestaan uit vele dimensies wat gebruik word om mag uit te beeld. Gaan kyk ook gerus na die werk van WE RISE oor die Power Flower.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Om verder te gaan om voorreg uit te beeld het ons die volgende vrae aan onsself gevra:

  1. Waar het jy groot geword?
  2. Met watter speelgoed het jy gespeel?
  3. Watter kos het jy geeet?
  4. Waar het jy gaan vakansie hou?
  5. Wat het jou ouers vir werk gedoen?
  6. Tot watter mate het jy toegang tot tegnologie en lees materiaal gehad?
  7. Na watter tipe skool het jy gegaan?
  8. Watter taal het jou familie gepraat?
  9. Het jy met beide ouers grootgeword?
  10. Watter beelde van jouself het jy in die media gesien?
  11. Is jy ooit neerhalende name genoem op grond van een van die dimensies van jou identiteit?
  12. Het jy meestal veilig gevoel?

En om jou eie bias of vooroordeel raak te sien die volgende gevra:

  1. Wanneer het jy vir die eerste keer bewus geraak van jou ras identiteit?
  2. Wat dink jy sien mense soos jy nie raak nie wat mense kan seermaak?
  3. As gevolg van jou ras het jy al bias ervaar, persoonlik of professioneel, wat jou bevoordeel of benadeel?
  4. Nou at jy dit weet wat kan jy moontlik anders doen?

Wat het jou laat verander? – Blootstelling!

Wat het ek nodig om die werk te doen?

Moontlike Scenarios vir NGKe in Suid-Afrika

Nadat ek “Die Toekoms van die Afrikaanse gereformeerde kerke in Suid-Afrika: moontlike, waarskynlike en verkieslike opsies” van Dr. BJ (Barry) Tolmay gelees het, wil ek graag die volgende opmerkings in die verband maak.

In sy toekoms model werk hy met ‘n moontlike, waarskynlike en verkieslike toekoms.

Watter oorsake kan die tendens van rigting laat verander?

Gewoonlik, wanneer scenarios ontwikkel word, word tussen twee en vyf scenarios op ‘n slag ontwikkel.

Cornish 2004:98 werk met ‘n spektrum van 5 verskillende scenarios:

  • Verassingsvrye scenario: Dinge gaan aan soos die tans is. (Hier is elemente van die waarskynlike toekoms teenwoordig).
  • Pessimistiese scenario: Donkerder prentjie word geskets.
  • Optimistiese scenario: Beter prentjie word geskets. (Hier is elemente van die moontlike toekoms teenwoordig).
  • Chaotiese toekoms: Chaos speel af met gebeure wat nog nooit verwag is nie. Troefkaarte word hierby ingebou. (Covid-19).
  • Transformerende scenario: Fantastiese gebeure speel af wat nooit gevisualiseer is nie. (Hier is elemente van die verkieslike toekoms teenwoordig).

Die Indlalamithi verslag van 2018 werk met 3 verskillende scenarios:

  • Gwara Gwara: Negatief, pessimisties, verskeurd, gebrekkig, rusteloos.
  • iSbhujwa: Losse onstabiele samelewing, diepwordende sosiale verdeeldheid, daaglikse proteste.
  • Nayi le Walk: In pas met homself, groeiende sosiale samebinding, ekonomiese uitbreiding, positief teenoor die Grondwet.

Johan vd Merwe van Stellenbosch het in 2018 met ‘n Kwadrant Scenario gewerk:

  • Time travelers: Hunker na die goeie ou dae.
  • Connecting the dots: Kerk fyn verweef met samelewing, veerkragtige instelling van aksie.
  • Missing the point: Meer gerig op bemarking as diensbaarheid.
  • The dinosaur: Ou strukture word in stand gehou sonder oplossings vir nuwe uitdagings.

In die toekoms moet die NGK ‘n dinamiese sisteem wees wat interafhanklik funksioneer.

Afrikaans raak kleiner agv, veroudering, emigrasie en verengelsing.

Beweeg oor kleurgrense.

Bedien sterk in Engels vanuit hoofstroom tradisie.

Six Enemies of Adaptability – and What to Do About Them

The need to be adaptable – to develop adaptive intelligence at both a personal and organisational level is well stated. In fact, it is something that is overstated. It is the most important thing if one is to thrive in the future. There can be no more important a conversation.

So what exactly is ‘adaptive intelligence’?

Essentially it is the capability to use information to manage (challenging) situations, communicate and connect with other people, and educate yourself on the surrounding context or climate.

An important question to then ask is, ‘what are the things that block adaptability’? Or to put it another way, ‘what might be the enemies of adaptability’?

Here would be six common ‘enemies’ that thwart adaptability; and some tactical questions/suggestions as to how to defeat them.

1. Knowing for certain

It is not what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so“. – Mark Twain
A ‘knowing for certain’ leads to fixed assumptions. Fixed assumptions lead to an arthritic condition that limits flexibility. When we know ‘for certain’ it means we stop asking questions or that we develop huge blind spots that allow bad habits to breed unchecked. Curiosity and questions are important in galvanising adaptability and when there is an absence of curiosity and questioning – or worse still when they are actively discouraged, the causality is adaptability.

Reflective Questions/ Action:

What is it ‘you know for certain that just isn’t so’? Add this question to your next team agenda and see what your team comes up with. What are the questions you should be asking, but aren’t? Why not?

2. Habits

Being adaptable requires identifying mindsets and behaviours that we need to change. Of course ‘wanting’ to make this change is an important part of the equation! Habits can get in the way of such change. It is hard to change old habits and develop new ones but this is exactly what adaptability demands.

Identifying the habits that are blocking a change in both mindset and behaviours is the first step in gaining a clear picture of what needs to be done in order to start the adaptive process. Flexible mindsets and behaviours are an essential part of what it means to be adaptive.

Reflective Questions/ Action:

What are some of your ‘work habits’ (the way in which you approach your job)? Where did they come from and are they still serving a future fit purpose? Which of these might need to change as you think about the work you will be doing three years from now?

3. Fear

Fear is a very real block to developing adaptive intelligence. For some, this will be more of an obstacle than it will be for others. The fear blocking adaptability will have many guises: What if I fail? What will I lose? What will I have to let go of? What will others say or think? And so the questions will keep coming. Fear can lead to a very real paralysis that inhibits or blocks adaptability. Identifying this fear and facing it (easier said than done) is the start in overcoming it and embracing adaptability.

Reflective Questions/ Action:

When you think of the future – what do you fear the most? Why? What might be your ‘sense of loss’ in making any of the changes that you feel will need to be made if you are to adapt?

4. Organisational Hierarchy

A hierarchical structure makes adaptation far more problematic. The reason is that effecting change can only really start from the top in a hierarchy. The lower levels (often acutely aware of the need to change and adapt) are usually powerless to effect the necessary change. The ‘command and control’ leadership style that usually is indicative of a hierarchy means that others within the structure are unable to initiate change. Information and control flow ‘downwards’ and over time there develops unresponsiveness within the lower levels within the structure and a kind of ‘wait to be told’ type of malaise sets in.

Research reveals that creating opportunities for self-organisation is a characteristic of adaptive intelligence and creating such opportunities results in increased sustainability. This should be all the motivation needed for leaders to ensure that they create such opportunities within their structures!

Reflective Questions/ Action:

How might your structure be inhibiting the development of adaptive intelligence within your organisation? How could you increase opportunities for your team/organisation to ‘self-organise’? (Why not discuss this with them?)

5. Short-term Thinking

Short-term thinking means that the changes we make tend to be incremental and the action taken is in response to immediate pressures or opportunities. Many of the metrics in place drive and reinforce a short-term thinking mentality within a business and this is extremely dangerous. Leaders need to lift their heads and ensure that they and their team are ‘looking out the window’.

They need to be looking at the horizon and do, what we at TomorrowToday like to call, ‘think like a futurist’. Smart leaders intentionally cultivate questions and conversations that force their team to consider the long-term consequences of the decisions and actions taken today. The issues around climate change have helped raise the awareness and importance of thinking long-term.

Reflective Questions/ Action:

How far into the future are you and your team thinking? What are you measuring (and why)? How might this impact your ability to think long-term?

6. Spending too much time on the dance-floor

In the Adaptive Leadership model, a distinction is made between the ‘dance-floor’ and the ‘balcony’. The idea is that leaders need to spend more time on the balcony from where they are able to get a different perspective of the dance-floor. When on the dance-floor one’s perspective is limited to the immediate surroundings and in a world that is complex, connected and fast-changing, being on the dance-floor can be dangerous because of what is unseen.

Most leaders spend too much time on the dance-floor. A quick and easy ‘test’ of this would be to look at your last few leadership team agendas. The chances are that you will see an agenda dominated by ‘operational issues’ (the dance-floor) and little that is forcing the conversation to consider the bigger picture, the ‘out-there’ disruptions that need to be given careful attention.

Spending too much time on the dance-floor inhibits the ability to see the adaptation that is needed. It feeds off of ‘short-term thinking’ and means that dance moves are honed rather than calling for an entirely new dance.

Reflective Questions/ Action:

Review your last few agendas and put the dance-floor / balcony assumption to the test. What could your individual / collective balcony look like? How could you begin to access it and how will you create such accountability?

These six ‘enemies of adaptability’ represent but a start in what might be your most important journey as a person and/or as a leader. Intentionally building the capacity to be ‘future-fit’ – or to adapt to a changing context to thrive, cannot be emphasised enough. This is important work at both a personal and at a leadership level.